A sampling of the MANY interesting points brought up in this book: – “Sexual excitement requires that we momentarily become selfish. Time and again, after each of these encounters, he would make me feel special and secure in our relationship. Nowadays, I can sleep fine when he’s out on a date. I hope you’re imagining group sex with your parents right now. I just want someone to hang out with, experience some culture, have some drinks, and have sex with no guilt, no drama and no real expectations. I figured you might know where to look.” To which I replied, “Sounds perfect. As the story would flesh out, I would cautiously relax, but still be slightly wary. He’s such a nice guy, he tries so hard to cater to her wants and needs, yet she treats him like an annoying puppy? She approached us about it, asking how it all works. With her last boyfriend, she told him she was okay with him being with other women, as long as he let her know about it.

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I realize that I have no inherent entitlement to the attention of a woman, man or other human or even animal or plant beings on this planet. They are unique, sacred beings in their own right, with their own rights. After our spontaneous threesome the other night, I was SO eager for the three of us to get together again! After a while, he asked her if she was down to play that night, and she said yes! But then you have to make a conscious effort to Move Forward. I was going down the AA path because I felt helpless and out of control – like a child.

Marriage does not bind a woman to blindly obey her husband nor create his ownership of her. I love her hazel eyes, her bountiful hair, and pert nose. She has such animated facial expressions, and tells such funny stories. AA corroborated with that, espousing that alcoholics are powerless against alcohol.

That is a myth perpetrated by patriarchs including religious zealots. You have to surrender and give yourself up to a Higher Power in order to find your salvation.

Sacred female energy is a gift, as is sacred male energy, to be lovingly shared without expectation of a return. I bought into that until I started reading the book Responsible Drinking.

We humans are intricately complex beings capable of interpreting or reinterpreting our basis of existence in how we identify ourselves within the larger context of our world. Bringing it to the surface is so much healthier for me than burying it.

Showing love means being accepting, supportive, and encouraging to others who may be considering or who have concluded that natural gender assignment my not be correct for themselves and chose to live differently than we might expect. As humans we have the ability to love and show our love to many beings and in the energy of the Universe, this love is felt whether we consciously realize it or not. Like everyone else, I feel shame, but I process it faster than most people, I think. My friend commented, “You don’t SEEM like you have thick skin. I know you are tough like whoa, but I love that you aren’t hard on people.

Oft the energy of love is returned to us as is the reverse when we do not show love. It’s a gift.” Another superpower is being forgiving. So often, our parents intentionally and unintentionally hurt us when we are children. Forgiving them of their flaws and mistakes is a huge gift to everyone involved.

Love opens up many new avenues of energy which provides the opportunity for unlimited fulfillment both in this world and the world of energy beyond. Paul Gilmartin of the Mental Illness Happy Hour podcast always says, “All feelings are valid, there are just healthy and unhealthy ways of expressing it.” Don’t bury or suppress your feelings.

So here we are four years later: a polyamorous couple in a sea of monogamy. Polyamory applies the same concept of loving more than one person in a lifetime, the only difference being that these relationships overlap in the case of polyamory, because life is too short. Anthony Weiner, however, WOULD.) If you send me a cock shot, it’s like a slap in the face, an instant turn off, and an online assault, and I will fine you and demand an apology if you ever want to interact with me again. Or feel completely justified in sending a cock shot. Wanna know the quickest way NOT to get under my skirt? OK, besides wearing ugly footwear or torturing small mammals.